Aita for telling my brother to get out and take My brother will not shut the fuck up about this. It wasn't easy for Jane to hear and my family didn't love it. 9. Have brother build a house with 2 inlaw suites. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! Follow the link above to learn more AITA for telling my brother that it’s pathetic he can’t do the basic that his wife did. When I got out the shower, my wife told me that she called my boss & that he was giving me as much time off as I need, with pay. My (18f)'s parents divorced when I was about 6, it was 50-50 custody split with my mom wasting no time to get remarried to my step-dad. And are doing good. Their lease almost ended and my parents invited them to stay at our house. Edit- no I don’t hate my brother. He had bad separation anxiety that they would call me 3-4 times a day whenever he cried for me. We tried to get to know her, but she seemed to want an instant intimate connection rather than building one. They asked my BIL if they could borrow his skid loader but he said no. What does she get out of trying to force you to be in a room full of abusers. 4 married. He's 17 and can take care of himself or go on the family vacation. My brother has 50/50 custody with his ex-wife over my nephew (3). After a family discussion this afternoon, I told my parents, they should take the rest of his college fund, liquidate it and use the money to finish paying off their house and the rest for an investment property or doing something fun for themselves as it's their money and to charge kid brother rent so he has to get a job and to give him a Tell your brother that if you are no longer living in the home, it will become an investment property to you, which means a new lease (please tell me you made them one) and market rent for them, those are the terms and they can either take it or move out. Me and my brother would never do this to each other. 2 Weeks ago was my 19th birthday and i and my younger brother wanted to go out and have a sister - brother day. My oldest brother and his wife did a similar thing when my Brother committed suicide. My oldest brother (22M) has autism. telling my brother I don’t want to reconnect and be apart of his wedding 2) my parents think i’m the asshole, and his fiance did get therapy she needed Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. My brother thought Jory would have "seen sense" and calmed down. He said "Knock knock. He made his choice and he chose a bully. My brother is 40M and is the oldest, with three kids of his own. Me and Diana did not get along. It was around this time that my teachers started to suggest I might have dyslexia and the school reacted out to my mother but she was too focused on my sister to do anything for me. Tell them you have plans. I have 2 stepsons, and the elder has severe autism. I may have went too far with the comment but really this is sad that he can’t clean a house. Apr 4, 2025 路 I (30M) was at my brothers (34M) house when my sister in law (31F) went into labour, they live in the countryside so the signal isn’t too great sometimes unless they walk up the lane so my brother was supposed to take her to the hospital instead of calling an ambulance but for some f-----g reason he decided to freak out and drive off somewhere. i would send him cards and we would call each other often. We have all gotten frustrated because when we try to push her to get help my brother tells us to back off. I know my sister wants my house because it’s more modern looking then moms. Feb 15, 2025 路 “NTA. Recently I attended… I wasn’t at all expecting my last post to get so much attention. Dad married Tina (Not her real name) When I was 7. There’s no “I deserve this for free” option. She would clear out all the money in my checking account/savings whenever my dad would cancel her credit cards and drain her checking account to prevent her from spending money (she does shop too much, but he also wouldn’t let her get a job most of the time which would’ve been 1-The action I think should be judged is telling my sister not to give out what she can't take 2-I think it might make me the asshole because my brother had touched a sensitive subject with her and I was essentially saying that she deserved it Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Oct 23, 2024 路 Here were the top rated comments from readers in response to the OP's post: SolitaryTeaParty. I was kicked out of the meeting since It wasn't the first time I leave. I could have this one and you take moms house. This conversation led me to actually get my head checked after 30 years of not knowing how bad it was. telling my brother’s fiancée that my only obligation towards her is to treat her with respect, and since I’m already doing that, I don’t understand what more can she want from me. She didn’t want to tell my family the details about the fight because it was regarding what he read from her journal and some of the stuff was about her still having feelings for me. I never wanted to be more like them or blend in with them better. Plenty of people are forced to work two jobs or more to survive. DO NOT make your 17-year-old take care of her brother for an entire weekend, REGARDLESS of whether she also has other I (42M) have a niece Lily (18F). 5K votes, 689 comments. Ugh. He has pushed my boundaries for over a year trying to push the kids on to me and I’m finally done. His education has been a massive issue for my mum and it’s causing her a lot of stress. I 25F, the youngest for four siblings. As we all told you on your original post, you are a fantastic big brother for looking out for your sister. " Last week was my dad's birthday and we had a party, my sister and Lance came and she was wearing a pretty short floral dress, nonetheless most of the men were looking at her including my dad's friends, Lance was as stoic as always and my sister came to my mom and I and saying that she didn't know why he was so quiet since he's not like that (HE He’s my brother and I have to care about him but he irritates the hell out of me sometimes. My friend also says that I'm the AH and that I shouldn't speak to my mom like that. My parents have been married 58 years and I have no doubt that my Dad would have raised and treated my brother exactly the same as his bio children but with the advent of cheap genetic tests, the info (likely) would have still come out. 1K comments. I called her and she said she was keeping it safe and we'll talk after she get home since she and dad and my autistic 14yo sister were out. The day they came, Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my room yet. She wanted to AITAH for telling my brother to stay away from me and my family? I (47f) was 15 when my brother was born and he was very attached to our mother, he doesn't really remember our dad because he was three when he passed. My parents sil and brother was sitting on the couch when I got home. This was my life. I knew this infuriated him because he’s older than me. I struggle even getting a drivers license because of screwy rules requiring a family member sign off on my 50 hours drive time, now im terrified to be behind the wheel and gave up. A week ago today my parents were telling me I needed to learn to be more patient and understanding with my sister because I would take care of her one day and I told them they need to start saving for her future care because I won't do it anymore. My brother tried to stop him but his wife said she didn't want Jory around Emily if he was going to be so hateful. I had a very cold, unemotional father growing up as well however there was no reason for him being like that. I was led to believe Lily was mine throughout the entire pregnancy and almost signed her birth certificate before my ex confessed out of guilt that Lily was probably my brothers. So fast forward to NYE, my parents hosted a big celebratory dinner and Ethan and his wife came. I have several adopted younger siblings myself, and 2 will never be able to live on their own. It is okay to say. My parents divorced right after my It's obvious you care for your brother and you're a good guy trying to figure out how to get through a very challenging situation, he needs a kick in the butt, either by getting kicked out or if he stays there make him truly work hard. In general she is unpleasant to be around. I called him and told him to get home and take me to the hospital he said he was coming but he didn't. My husband's brother (BIL 37) and his wife (SIL 35) struggled with infertility for years after trying so much for long they decided to stop. Telling one child to get over another one being more naturally apt at life YEAH huge YTA! I have two boys and one has a much easier time in school while one struggles but the one that struggles has so many other strong points I’d never ever tell him his brother is just more natural at life 馃檮. I ran out and found my nephew sitting on the floor. I think the wife or gf of the brother was deleting all the messages and silenced the calls, not that pos brother doesn't deserve any consequences or is innocent in all this debacle, but I can see her doing that, so no matter if they wrote in a text message their mom died, that message wasn't gonna get through the brother, until their trip ended, I think the gf (or wife I really don't care what I (26M) have 3 kids under 5 (4F, 4F and 2M) with a 4th kid on its way. It would have been kind to just reply "hey I'm not being an asshole, I'm just pointing out what we all noticed and we're concerned. I guess we weren't in that situation to know exactly what went down but if I was in OPs position, I wouldn't like someone insulting my little brother. Take whatever time you need and if your dad hassles you, tell him "I'm grieving MY MOTHER. " Ethan laughed and said "Who's there?". As soon i finished school i went to college and cut contact with my family besides the only person that was always on my side my younger brother. To say that the comments were a wake up call is an understatement. This reminds me of my aunt, who didn’t believe in car seats or seatbelts. NTA. It was a connection to my mom that made me proud. When my boyfriend bought his building he told me he wanted to give his mother a unit and for me to move in with him. They constantly tell me I’m not “allowed” to move out and they do everything they can to fearmonger, guilt trip, and belittle me into staying. I am trans and my brother has always been my biggest supporter. Jory is still with his grandparents. I’m hoping you can help my mum (59yrs) and I (32yrs). My little brother (16) has been living with me for a little over a year now, our parents kicked him out when he came out and I couldn't not take him in, he's my baby brother. Edit This is a repost from my original post in another room which was taken down due to some details about the girl’s boyfriend. They're on better terms now but it was quite tense. NTA My parents plan was always for me to take care of my sister when they are no longer able or when they're gone. " My mom kicked me out of my bathroom and is now making me share with my brother because apparently, I am not able to keep it clean. Jan 2, 2025 路 "AITA for telling my brother I’m not babysitting his kids anymore after they ruined my New Year’s plans?" Whenever my brother (27M) needs help, I take care of his two kids (4F and 6M). Ask her what she is getting out of this. She's 29 and he's 22 and he just argued about the subject they were talking about but she went full asshole. About 10 years ago, my dad and brother was building a deck at my parent’s home. After I gave my husband space, I confronted him about his trips with my brother. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it. We called them and called them but they refused to come. I told her and my father that from now on I wanted receipts for any money I gave them. My nephew is kinda like Alice. However I had my mother to take care of my sister and so I can’t even begin to imagine the courage it took for you to raise your brother. I guess I need to have this talk with my parents as I need to find out their plans for my sisters’ future care. I would appreciate it! It would really help with space and you would make me and your niece and nephews so happy!” I laughed out loud, the house mom had left behind was big and it was more than enough space for a 5th child. Yeah I agree. Don't stand for it. They prepared the ground as best they could without the skid loader but got to the point they couldn’t go on without it. I don't care what you do with the money or your property but I don't want to be left to figure it out with my brother and stepsister. true. Come up with a really creative excuse about it being related to school somehow so they can't fight it, if you need to. My brother has asked if I can take my nephew for the 2 days a week. My husband showed up 2hrs later after he kept calling asking if I was still in labor and that he was almost done watching the game. "What is wrong with you? AITA for telling my brother I didn’t my want my son hunting, and WIBTA for telling my son I wouldn’t allow him to go with even if he wasn’t going to be shooting his gun? Edit:spelling Edit 2: I’ve decided that regardless of the final outcome, they will be participating in a hunter safety class. 5 years together. I told her what my aunt said. That's what I'd do. T. My mom would do the same before I turned 18 and was able to change my bank account to not be connected to hers. She took it out on me. . this made me really annoyed because he seems to be getting special treatment just for being lazy and doing nothing while i do double chores everyday and i dont get to drop out of school or use EXACTLY what I was thinking. OP I am so sorry for your loss. She would brake my toys and steal my stuff and lie to get me in trouble. Even though if it was my big sister. I told him that was very sweet and was onboard with it. When I turned 18 I reached out to my birth mother and found out she turned her life around, she has a well paying job, three new kids and a husband. To add, 8-10 years this girl will be 13-15 when her parents get out, old enough to tell the judge that she wants to stay with you. From your aunt's response, it seems like you're in an incredibly sexist family. He complains about it constantly. She chose that lifestyle over Us, and me and my sister were adopted by a really nice family. My dad had an affair around the time he and my mom conceived me (16m) and my half sister Jessie (16f) was the result. I said I have no problem helping them but I will be damned if I work my ass off for her to give my money to my piece of shit brother. You could have retreated to your room, you could have even taken your dog with you, but telling him to get out wasn't your right. I was confused, like wtf, and he told me that he and Jill will be at my room and I go to guest room. They would tell me constantly how much potential I had, how bright I was, I had a high IQ etc and that I was going to have a glittering career someday. 1. Jan 13, 2025 路 "AITA for taking my brother to live with me without the approval of my dad and his GF?" Me (21F) and my brother (19M) used to live with my father (56M) and up to recently, with his girlfriend (48F). He confronted her, so that’s how he misinterpreted the whole thing thinking it was an affair with me. I (30M) was at my brothers (34M) house when my sister in law (31F) went into labour, they live in the countryside so the signal isn’t too great sometimes unless they walk up the lane so my brother was supposed to take her to the hospital instead of calling an ambulance but for some fucking reason he decided to freak out and drive off somewhere. His brother and his family live in one (wife & 3 kids), my boyfriend and his mother live in one and he rents out the other 3. She works part time and takes care of my brother (car accident, partially temporarily paralyzed). We all tried to welcome Jenny, especially knowing that she grew up in the foster care system and didn’t have family. Dec 23, 2024 路 The post, titled “AITA For telling my mom to stop letting my brother get away with stuff just because he’s autistic?” began with the teen sharing her family background. None of that should be your responsibility as a child. The family has taken a step back from my brother and his wife. I can't even fathom what a prick OP's brother is. My mother dislikes her and avoids her. At this point she has said concerning things for her well being and we just want to get her help. OUT (my parents) back-up I was all alone -but somehow I finally got the best of all of them. In the end, I said they could prove they were sorry by forwarding me the $100k my degree and college expenses were, just like they did for my brothers. He leaves dishes in the sink, doesn’t take out the trash. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. I (27m) haven't spoken or seen my brother "Kevin" in 5 years. This is we’re the issue starts, my brother and Kat asked our By the time I was 10 my mother was okay leaving me at home while they were at the hospital so I was alone. Unfortunately there were numerous problems previously but I know that their actions even 8 years later are still remembered. Give the kids a good example of class and dignity. They got in a fight with dad when she visited and dad kicked her out. Oh, OP, this is fantastic news. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. My wife argues that if we don’t take her, she’ll go into foster care but I pointed out if we don’t take any of them, they’ll all go into foster care. I cleaned him up and took him to the bathroom. Like OP, joke was on her because she never would have gotten the house my dad lived in, as it was basically willed to me and my brother so there was no way for trashy gf to get her grubby hands on it no matter how deep of a wedge she made. Our dad would call occasionally, so if my brother answered he’d hang up, hand me the phone and say when it rings it’s for you. In 2019, he purchased a building with 5 units. 23K votes, 5. I get that they can be hard to get for the people who need them the most, but if the components are damaged in any way, they can lead to gnarly injuries for when they inevitably fail. You did good. How do I know? I have 2 half sibling who are from my dads previous marriage. When I told him what happened he said he understand why I feel the way I do but that I was quite harsh towards my mom and I should apologise for lashing out at her like that. And suddenly my 3yo nephew was knocking on the door wanting me to help him because he wet himself. 4K votes, 40 comments. We found out Jessie was our half sister 6 years ago and my parents marriage broke up over the revelation. Why does she think that it would be good for you or your husband or your baby to try to bring abusers into your life. First, it was a meal to celebrate your mom, and it really wasn't your place to kick her son (and presumably his family) out of a meal honoring her in her own home. We really only see them for family holidays. My drama with her revolved around being extremely rude about the food I made for a gathering. Also sometimes it's their Grandma or Grandad. Lily is the result of an affair my ex fiancee had with my brother while we were still together. I'm 30f, and I'm currently two months pregnant with my first child and engaged to my fiancé of three years James (31), for little background when I was [15] my parents had my baby brother ; and five years after while I was (20) and Matt was (5), my parents and Matt were driving home when they got into an accident resulting in my parents' death. She was ecstatic that I reacher out to her, and seemed like she really had changed. I had to play teeball with younger disabled kids instead of softball with girls my age, whenever my brother got kicked out of Tae Kwon Do for suckerpunching another kid I was pulled out too, same thing when he pointed a gun at our instructor in a gun safety course required to go hunting (he still got to go hunting, I didn't), etc. He hasn’t changed at all and honestly he married someone just like himself. Eventually things settled and I think what sparked that was Amy getting pregnant with his kid. Kat is difficult to get along with in general. Racism is learned not ingrained, so hopefully, she hasn't taught them anything nasty. I'd take my kids mental health being improved over insisting who they talk to. My last pregnancy I was passing out if I didn't catch the warning signs fast enough and yet I still managed to feed, bathe and get my kids to school each day (sometimes only my oldest had to go and I kept my then youngest home from daycare and just put eldest on the bus). I get chronic cluster migraines (I’ve been diagnosed by multiple doctors and am currently waiting to see a neurologist) that last for sometimes literally months at a time… lemme tell you, obviously I emphasize with people who also get migraines and of course there’s a range of symptoms and severity, but it makes me feel ragey when people You have a life to live. " I already talked to Mike and I tell you that he's 100%means no harm and he was just trying to get them to react. I disagree with this comment. He agreed to be honest with me about their relationship. Even though it was strange to me I allowed them to stay in my house and a few weeks pass by and his girlfriend starts to get rude towards me and even my children tell me they don’t enjoy having her in the house. It stresses my mom out badly when he asks for money (the only time he talks to her) because she gets so upset thinking about them doing without or needing something so she usually gives in. If they need money that bad they can get another job. I ended up calling my sister (she lives nearby) and she took me to the hospital. The most important thing is that they talk to someone they trust and get help with whatever they need. “For him to call you selfish is laughable. Mar 29, 2025 路 "AITA for telling my wife that I'm ending our marriage because I found her brother at our house (again)?" I ( M38) left my wife ( Kelly F38) today. Nothing changed after my sister became cancer free and Sarah (my stepmother) was actually our neighbor and I was around 8 when the cheating happened. Maeve admitted that my brother found her personal journal. She had a daughter also 7 from a previous relationship Diana. But she can’t take it at the expense of her 17-year-old daughter. My step-dad had children already: Alex (15m), Violet (16f), and Mabel (17f). Diana was spoiled and to adult me, it was obvious she resented not being the only child anymore. I hung up and called my sister in law to tell her to the real reason and my brother called me cussing me out because she refuses to take the test he ordered online and now is taking him to court for a court ordered test along with child support because she’s breaking up with him. He just was. For the record, I have no doubt the test will find that he is my brother's biological son. , etc. I waited til they got back and my sister started yelling cheerfully telling me to look at the new sneakers my parents got her. I barely speak to our parents or anyone in the family. I’m 22f and I’m ready to get the heck out of this house. I told them to take everything I own since she deserves it all and I don't deserve shit because I never got sick as a kid. Both my parents have put "the cheating" behind them and are cordial with each other. The moment my brother did my school bully and said that to me I would’ve been done with him. And daddy told him to come to me I had to pause. Before we had kids, my wife and I had lots of ideas about the parents we were going to be and we had lots of scorn for people who parented in ways we disagreed with but, as any parent knows, actually raising kids is hard work and you will break your "values". My brother told me I was being selfish and that I need to get over my problems with her family because she is going to be his girlfriend in a few weeks. He said the only thing he regrets is breaking it the one time in 2019. But startedsort of living the experience of having a child by doing the things that parents do like getting a nursery (they removed it now) buying bany cothes, toys, at i told my dad that its unfair that my brother doesnt have any responsibilities, he said that i'm being too harsh on him and i should "live and let live". He is not your problem. I KNOW my nephew's colouring doesn't mean he is not biologically my brother's. Hey, my brother went no contact with our father from 2007-2019 for something very similar they spoke once in 2019 and haven’t spoken since. It does not go unnoticed and you've shown your sibling what love looks like. Just keep your brother away from her, get ready to move out and cut contact with him. My younger brother (19M) has struggled to find stable employment since he refuses to attend college or take any apprenticeship or higher learning opportunity. Mind you, everyone uses this bathroom and she constantly tells me that it's not just my bathroom but of course I am the only one responsible for cleaning it. Posted by u/throwing-it-away-89 - 5,194 votes and 1,355 comments My SIL is very hard up right now and has been going to food banks to feed her, my brother and the kids. And even if they are going, I don’t want to. Today we and our little sister (10F) had school off due to snow. Subreddit Announcements Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our honeymoon with mike in her note she told me she loved him since high school but he was never interested so she used me to get to him. Feelings are not one of them. So for now accept bringing her into your house, act like all will be fine when they get out, then start doing what you need from there to become her legal guardian. At first I was really offended on your behalf because I'm adopted and though my brother and I are not biologically related, he is 100,000% my brother and nothing else and I am wildly offended at the idea that there could be something weird going on between us because we're not genetically related. 4 of us were young & close in age (I was around 7, my sister 6, 2 male cousins ages 7 & 4) our 2 older male cousins were in their teens at this time & their girlfriends were also going with us. . The action I took was lying about leaving a family gathering when my parents kept overcomplimenting my brother's cooking and brushed off my news about my fiance's job. This was quite a big secret to keep from his wife and he did tell you that he'd tell her when they get more serious so it's only natural for you to assume since they are now married (very serious) that he has told her. My brother tried to get in my face but I’m taller and bigger than he his so I just put my hand on his face a shoved him out of my way. EDIT: Because this seems to have been missed. 2) she got really offended and hurt by what I’ve said to the point where she blocked me. W. Everyone in the family has had some type of drama with her. It's been especially hard on my brother "Sidney"… Things got intense between my brother and Jory and Jory left and went to stay with his maternal grandparents. Many people wanted an update, so here it is. Since then, I’ve been getting calls from my brothers telling me I’m being immature and hurtful. I stood firm. She’ll ask for proof that he’s in school and he sends her a photo of his desk looking down at his laptop but she can’t t Sadly-after my parents were deceased-they & my spouse went thru a really abusive stage towards Me & it was obvious they felt they were FREE to Do as they Pleased -including my spouse -but w. I feel for you. My parents went after my brother, as did my sister, to tell him how shitty what he had done was, how could he do it, was he cruel or just dumb, etc. If she tries to pressure your brother into pressuring you to let her stay, you should tell him everything. Exactly! My kids are generally more comfortable talking with me over their dad when it comes to certain topics. Because i know he then will keep complaining to me about same stuff and won’t do shit do fix it. So shout out to you and all of the other amazing siblings in this world standing up for your LGBT+ siblings. Their bio mom has been telling the younger son that he will have to take care of his older brother when he is an adult since he was 3 years old. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. " Next time it's time to do chores, go get your brother out of his room and your father out of his and tell them "this is OUR house where WE ALL live. While we were eating dinner, Mike decided to tell a knock-knock joke to Ethan. Please like, comment and subscribe. My whole family found out from me and things were explosive for a while. They’d be gone for a week at a time, camping, and this was all pre cellphone so the only way to get in touch with them was to call the ranger station and have someone go out and find them. My mom burst into tears, my dad said I wasn’t being serious and I just left. When I was 22 and Kevin was 25, I found out that my girlfriend of 3 years was having an affair with Kevin. I KNOW for a fact that if I were in OP's shoes and my half brother called my mom a resentful old hag, that kid would've found out exactly why my mom didn't like him and not in the nicest way too. Then she says, "You told me that there was a project and they needed you. He’s not entitled to more than your mom decided to leave him, and considering the state of the relationship and how he insisted on praising a man who mistreated her, it’s pure generosity on her part that she left him anything. I love my family but I was always proud of being named by my mom and never cared that I stood out. Then you can visit all you want but he gets all the money you wanted him to have, anyway, and he can possibly rent out those guest houses to get money to support disabled brother. Brother WAS wrong lashing out calling OP an asshole, but OP absolutely didn't need to twist the knife in deeper by saying something like "if you can't keep a job take a shower". There is good and bad in everything, I suppose. Feb 18, 2025 路 OP’s Brother Doesn’t Get a Free House – He either buys OP out, pays rent, or agrees to sell. So its a 3 brother compound even if only one lives there "full time. My sister in law died last year and it's been hard on my niece and nephews. It all started when Jack and Jill got pregnant. He got it for free too. I get it, Mom is burnt out and needs a break. My BIL (married to my sister) is a general contractor. She explained, “I (18F) am the youngest out of three siblings. But she ended up saying she’d call my brother and talk to him. They are waiting for insurance to kick in to pay for his medical bills, an on call nurse and PT. I stopped at the store to grab knob with a lock for my door. I went into my room and took my clothes and said she should have all that too. Don't let them stick your brother's care on you. If I moved out my dad would cut contact with me and he wouldn't allow my mom to even call me. I want to move out but I’ve had the same argument with my parents over and over again about leaving. He called my mother (his grandmother) for money for the 90000 times and she said "I'll pay for a vasectomy" I about died. My name did get comments and I would proudly tell people my mom named me. My (F25) (step)brother Nico (29) has recently got engaged to a woman called Jenny after dating for two years. Or even better 2 guest houses/pool houses. That's incredibly fucking stupid, and boy was I Have brother build a house with 2 inlaw suites. Aug 6, 2024 路 "AITA for telling my brother to get out and take his b-ch of a wife when he asked for some of our mom’s ashes?" My mom used to live near my brother, she was a quiet person in general and after dad died was lonely. If you truly do want to get rid of it, there are organizations out there that will take old prostheses and refurbish them. Me(25M), my brother Jack(27M) and his wife Jill(25F). Even though I love my niece and nephew, New Year's Eve was the last blow for me. After that my parents got very angry with me (because in any fight they will side with him anyway) telling me I’m a horrible brother , they demand I apologize to my brother but I refuse to do so. I said why not take my bed and give it to he as well. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you. My brother (16yrs) has been skipping school. He always responds that getting that done is, and I quote, "complicated. My parents already had my sister Winter (18f) and after me my parents had my brothers Hayes (14m) and Jonah (13m). I have been telling him for fully 20 years to make a plan a will, advanced directive, etc. One time in the early 90s, my sister & I went with our cousins to see a movie. When my mom asked me why I really left, I told her it was because they only ever compliment my one brother and don't say anything nice or encouraging to/about the rest of us. My boss is also married to the sister of one of my wife's brother's friends, and they've all known each other for a long time. Im 40 now and shits still a struggle. My younger sister (21F) is in college and graduating with a job already lined up. I TRIED to tell my brother this and he WOULD NOT listen. I am stunned since my brother hadn’t told me he had a girlfriend at all, let alone tell me she was pregnant. He’s said to me “I won’t even have a life when I grow up, I’ll just have to take care of my brother. Ding, ding, ding! This happened to me and my brother when my dad went off the deep end during his midlife crisis. NTA This is on your brother. Legally he has to get out to sell or buy you out,” one person said. I was in the office. My mother and my father separated and there was no bad blood between them with my mom getting the majority of custody. ” OP handled this situation a lot more maturely for someone at 16. When I was 25, our mom passed and I took him in. One thing to add, I was in a similar place to your brother at his age and my parents would get on me if I got less than a perfect grade while my sister was praised for getting worse grades than me. Either way I blocked my brothers number and I’m planning on not going. No I’m not going to the wedding as a punishment. My partner set a few ground rules when he moved in, no parties, his rent would be our weekly grocery bill, and if he could look after our 2 children (6 & 10) while we're You need to get out and not be at home those two weeks. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. This caused a pretty big rift in their relationship to the point where my brother wasn't speaking to our mom and my SIL refused to spend Christmas with her. I cannot imagine life without his support when I was a teen. AITA for not inviting them? Edit: I want to clarify that the reason my brother and his girlfriend can’t date until my brother is 18 is because when they got together she was 18 and he was 15. She started crying and my dad said that they weren't children and didn't answer to me. Feb 7, 2025 路 He calls back to tell me he just fired her but before I take down the review, I'm contacted by the waitress on my SM telling me that she didn't mean to cause disturbance and was just "complimenting" my husband's eyes, but I ruined her career and caused her to potentially lose her apartment and become homeless after getting fired from the diner The action I took was lying about leaving a family gathering when my parents kept overcomplimenting my brother's cooking and brushed off my news about my fiance's job. I also did not get any BFFs out of the deal and I was able to see how life changed with every adoption. 209 votes, 72 comments. I have battled her lack of boundaries about her family for the past 2 years. Feb 7, 2025 路 He calls back to tell me he just fired her but before I take down the review, I'm contacted by the waitress on my SM telling me that she didn't mean to cause disturbance and was just "complimenting" my husband's eyes, but I ruined her career and caused her to potentially lose her apartment and become homeless after getting fired from the diner My little brother called me mommy for nearly a year because my parents dumped his care on me my last year of high school and the summer before I left for Uni. Legal Action Might Be Necessary – If OP’s brother refuses to negotiate, a partition action may be the only way to force the sale. Dec 31, 2024 路 "AITA for telling my brother our mother isn’t the problem, his wife is the common denominator with all this drama?" My brother married Kat. Pleased read the full story. Im so glad things worked out for you. For the past year, my brother has been couch surfing. F!!!!! He’s 27. I broke up with her and moved back into my parents place, showing my parents the proof of the affair. Gives me some hope I'll get my shit together and figure shit out some day. Spell out what you want, make it legal. My brother makes more money than his ex, so even though they have my nephew the same amount of time, he still has to pay her $100 a month. Feb 19, 2025 路 The man expressed growing frustration with his brother-in-law, who failed to do even basic chores, saying, "He doesn’t even do basic chores, but my wife (she's his brother) always tries to cover for him and does his chores for him instead. Mum woke me up at 7am to tell me she’s heading off to work and to take care of the house. OP, you need to pick a weekend that your folks can watch the kids and get away THEN. My mom has since left two voicemails demanding I come back home now. Then look at her and look at her and demand an answer. Then pointed out she had a new bed and my bed was 12 years old. I asked my brother to move out 2) it's my brother and rent is expensive and he is expecting a kid Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Not even a doctor could tell me that because my parents downplayed it so much I didn’t even know I had actual damage to my brain until like two years ago- I’m almost 40. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver But I weened them off of using me financially. I asked mom for my money but she said she spent it on new sneakers for my sister. Daisy's refusal to be around anyone who is pregnant, even her grieving SIL, reminds me of the AITA post from maybe 6 months ago where OP's girlfriend was so set in her "I hate children" ways that she tried to prevent OP from letting his 16 year old brother who had been kicked out of his parents' house for being gay move into his apartment that Dec 26, 2024 路 ‘ AITA For telling my mom to stop letting my brother get away with stuff just because he’s autistic?’ I (18F) am the youngest out of three siblings. That said, I’m so glad your grandma is stepping in to both take you and your sister out of that situation and to get help for your mom. My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. I don’t want to go on a fourteen hour car ride with my brother and I’m pretty sure when we get there they’re either going to make me stay with him while they go out or take him out and leave me alone in the hotel (I also wouldn’t be allowed to go out on my own). My brother visits a few times a year and my half sister well uhm haven't seen her in 6 years. He doesn’t understand like everyone else does and is extremely smart in certain categories. She does take care of my nephew, we are just worried her PPD will progress and become dangerous for him. Shit, the minute I hit 16 and got a job my parents kept taking their summer vacations and I stayed home to work. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. ltdnve rxkr hlqq rulhacs fyir fxj baagv gyzuga zdysd wvjlk